My Aegislash has 5IVs in HP, Attack, Special Attack, Special Defense and Speed so how do I breed a Honedge with the 6th IV in Defense?
The only way to get the 6th IV is by luck. There are ways to increases it, such as :
Breeding with 2 6IV Pokemon will guarantee you having 5 IV Pokemon babies no matter what though, but the bad stat will always be random
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