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Np, hope you guys can work it out
Oct 13, 2020 by Iridacea
So I'm going to be annoying and give you my opinion.
I was once that possessive friend. I didn't show it often, but I used to get really jealous if my best friend talked to anyone else and (in my eyes) forgot about me. I was really just worried about her leaving me for someone else or by dating, and didn't know how to express it.  
I say you should give her another chance. Talk to her and your other friend, and try to figure out what's really the problem. And if you argue, it's okay. If she can't realize there's a problem and really work on being better, then maybe you should consider cutting her off.
Best of luck to you.
Oct 13, 2020 by Iridacea
You're welcome.
Oct 13, 2020 by Gau
I read your about me, and my opinion is that you should leave your possessive friend. She doesn't seem like a very good friend at all to me, and yeah, she could change, but she might not. Maybe you should give it some time, but if all she's doing is hurting friendships, she doesn't deserve friendship.

That might've sounded a bit harsh, but that's my opinion on the matter. But you can do whatever you'd like, and I hope it works out!
Oct 13, 2020 by Gau
You're welcome! Good luck!
Oct 13, 2020 by Amethyst
You're welcome, good luck! :)
Oct 13, 2020 by y-chai
Hm, whatever you'd like. I kind of just... let her figure it out herself :)
Oct 13, 2020 by y-chai
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I am posting this here because I need to get it out and hear your opinions if you want to share them because I don't know what to do and I know you all care. I have a possessive friend that gets  mad if I don't talk to her and its hurting another one of my frienships.  What should I do? Should I just leave my possessive friend, or should I try to fix both.  I don't know. Thanks"


This exact same thing happened to me, for about 1 1/2 years, but I gave her a lot of second chances and now she is one of my best friends in the entire world. I think you should give it some time and see if she turns around :)
Oct 13, 2020 by y-chai
Good luck!!
Oct 13, 2020 by Amethyst
I'd say you should try to repair the friendship, but it does sound quite toxic. If worst comes to worst, you should probably sever the friendship and spend time with friends that care more.

You obviously don't have to listen to that. Just trying to help a bit :)
Oct 13, 2020 by Amethyst